Sometimes it just has to be said. And it is of paramount importance NOT to look for silver linings or positive, feel-good solutions that make you want to strike someone, eat two plates of brownies or stare blankly at a wall for several hours. Here’s the beauty of saying WTF out loud. Poof! Just the act of saying it and surrounding it with a little humor, frees you from being a parenting failure, fundraising f*&^ up, or sad, sad excuse of a sister, career maven, community leader – whatever it is you do.